Tag: calm confrontation
Assertive or Aggressive? How to Speak Up Without Blowing Up

Knowing how to speak up is a superpower, if you can do it without turning every conversation into a cage match. Whether in relationships or at work, there’s a fine line between assertiveness and aggression. One builds bridges. The other burns them. But many of us were never taught how to walk that line. We… Read more
How to Roast a Manipulator Politely

Not all battles are won with yelling. Sometimes, the sharpest weapon you have is a calm, cutting truth wrapped in flawless delivery. When dealing with manipulators, especially the DARVO variety (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender), it’s easy to feel like you have only two choices: stay silent or blow up. But what if there… Read more